How To Make The "First Time" With Your Spouse Be Fabulous

The passion is. Meet someone and feel that it is time to move from emotional to physical. But how can that not be a first night, they easily forget?

The most frequent type of meeting to have sex for the first time is with someone with whom you already have a previous relationship.

Call this type "sex ratio". The sex ratio means that both understand that they can continue seeing and talking even after having sex. In fact, it would be perfectly normal sex ratio occurs after you have been seeing for a long time without "anything happen."

In this scenario, sex is not the beginning of a relationship, but to deepen it. We often begin a relationship with a sexual encounter. If sex is good, you may want to go further into the relationship and see if you can connect on other important levels and try to set the relationship persists. This may even result in cohabitation or marriage.

These are the rules you should follow the sex ratio:

1 - Mutual consent is required. In addition to this rule there are others that must be present: 2 - respect whatsoever is required. 3 - The mutual care is required. 4 - Open and honest communication is mandatory. 5 - Kindness and chivalry are the norm, and the "savage" is only permitted if mutually agreed.

RULES

1. Mutual consent is required. If you or she do not, what's the point? Remember that we are not using the other as an object, we must be loving. It is correct that one of them try things because the other person likes to do that, but must be prior, and not imposed by force.

2. The great respect is required. Respect implies that you are aware of what the other person wants. You are ready to discover what they are capable both in sexual matters. Your lover may have been damaged psychologically or emotionally in the past relationships he had. In fact, in most cases almost all were disappointed once. At the other end may have experienced sexual abuse as children. They may feel insecure about their sexuality. They may have low self-esteem as lovers. They can be quite inexperienced in sexual technique. You must be extremely patient and sensitive to the limits of their sexuality. Therefore, respect your partner and give the necessary time to feel good next to him.

3. Care is required. Love is always given and received as a gift. Sex without love can be great sex, but if you add sex care can become a warmth that connects two hearts and souls. This goes beyond sex technique. Sex with care of two lovers becomes full. Sex with love comes the lovers overflowing. Care to connect the sexual movements to achieve the creation of a deeper spiritual connection. Most men want an emotional connection, and most will welcome a more spiritual experience of sex, but are scared and do not yet know how. Most women need an emotional connection instead as input for a sex carefully.

4. Chivalry is used as required, and the "rudeness" is used as mutually desired. Consenting anything goes. But it is usually best to start with more gentleness and progress more slowly impetuosity, as well you learn what they want and in turn what you like it. Many women are passionate and "playful" as well feel secure. But if you have not established a high degree of confidence with it, "wild" may end prematurely with what could have been a passionate sexual relationship and long term.

5. Open and honest communication is mandatory. Talk about sex. Tell him what you like and what not. A good way to do this is to offer options A and B and ask what she likes best partner. This prevents damage to fragile egos that young men are so prone as they learn to be lovers. If a man hears, "I do not like that", it's easy to feel you're hurting your partner and this can make you retire, become angry or react otherwise inappropriate. But if you give your partner, for example, the choice between her breasts touched in one way or another, and asks what is the best for her, you will not hurt your ego and learn faster like it. Thus a common lover becomes a great lover.

If you need to stimulate their imagination to know what to try, read any of the various manuals available in bookshops love. And then use some of the techniques explained here to discover the preferences of his wife.

Once you honestly consider their attitudes then you can move comfortably in the physical aspects of love: as the act in question, the previous game, the game moments later and juicy all have sex.

In the East there is an ancient tradition called "the warrior lover," where the man is prepared physically, emotionally, and mentally for the "great battle." This is not to dominate or defeat his lover but to bring the best of both and reach new heights in sexuality.

The idea of ​​creating the right ambience for lovemaking may seem artificial or calculated, but there is also a great lover of art. A secluded, candles, good music, good wine, a special meal, clean sheets may sound like a trite scene from an old movie but still work. Women love to be adored and create a special place for shows that you love them love too.

Know that foreplay is very important to bring a woman to sexual satisfaction. It can get to arouse passion and bring it to the peak of his desire. But it is also very important later. After making love all night, you wake up and want to go as if it was all over.

But her lover does not want to leave. Take time and make the effort to show your appreciation and be careful to treat her with soft words and share breakfast at least. It is an advantage to remain the same loving person that was hours before making the act. Unless you do not want to see more.

Finally, although this would not that be said, always practice safe sex. Use condoms for safe sex. Even more when you have sex for the first time with that person. Remember that safe sex for the first time means that no one gets hurt and may continue to be lovers for long.